If you went through all the time, bother, and effort in setting up a BBW date, you might be forgiven for thinking that a lot of the heavy lifting were done. You might be forgiven for thinking that the moment you set up a BBW date, you’ve won. I can see why people would be very forgiving and look at the situation from this perspective because hey let’s face it; you went through a lot of hurdles to get to this point. You went through a lot of hoops; you overcame a lot of challenges; you’ve dealt with a lot of bullshit.

With that said, understand that setting up a BBW sex site and getting what you want are totally different things. Anybody can set up a BBW date it’s just like an appointment. You can call your dentist, set up an appointment but this doesn’t necessarily mean you will show up. Just because you picked up the phone, and you set up a time and place for you to get some dental work done, doesn’t necessarily mean that you would have what you’re looking for which is a bright, shiny smile.

The same applies to set up a BBW date. You can go through the hoops and hassles of playing the numbers’ game at the typical BBW dating website, putting up with all sorts of ass holes, filtering all sorts of bitches and chick who are trying to trick you and only to go on a BBW date and fail and again and again and again.

I don’t want you to fail. This is why it’s really important to understand that when you set up a BBW date, you’re just starting the process that’s just turning the key into the keyhole. That’s just the beginning, you’re taking the 1st step. Are you with me so far? If you’re able to understand that, then you have to do the next steps.

You have to understand that you have to have the right attitude. You’re not there as some sort of gift to her just because she’s overweight, doesn’t necessarily mean that she’s desperate, you need to get those ideas out of your head. Second, you have to make her comfortable, understand that you’re both there to have a good time. You’re not there for emotional strings; You’re not there to be your husband; You’re not there to be her boyfriend. None of that shit is in play.

She knows that, and you know it. Instead, you’re there to establish a mutual level of comfort so not only do you get to fuck each other a lot and have a good time, but you set up a great pattern for the next BBW date. That is your mission, you have to wrap your mind around this these factors otherwise, you’re going to fail.